Monday, March 30, 2009

The invisible man

You know that quote "You never know what it's like till you walk a mile in someone else's shoes". Well I came to experience first hand the treatment a disabled person gets when they walk into a running store to buy shoes. I went over to Fleet Feet on Saturday to order new running shoes. Mine were just about spent after the WDW half and I decided to hold off on buying a new pair for obvious reasons. Well now it's time. I limped into the store and went straight for the men's running shoes to check out the Asics GT-2140 one more time before I ordered them. When I walked up to the shoes one employee (who was helping someone else) asked me in a very strange tone "are you alright". I told him yes I am limping because I just had surgery on my knee over a week ago. He just has oh and goes back to work. Yes I was acknowledged, but it came off to me as why are you here? So I stood in front of the shoes for a while and waited for an employee to assist me. Many looked my way, but none came over. After about 15 mins. of standing I had to sit down because my good leg was hurting from supporting my other. So I sat there for another 5mins. when a customer walked into the store and the door had not even closed behind her and this employee shot out from behind the counter and started to assist her. So I finally had enough and walked up to this teenager behind the counter and said well I have been standing over there for 20mins. now I guess to get someone to help me I need to come up where you are standing. I told her that I needed to order the GT-2140. Reason being they do not carry my size shoe. And she looked at me favoring my knee and said gave me that why is this guy buying running shoes. I said in case your wondering why I am buy running shoes but am having trouble walking I just had arthroscopic surgery on my left knee to remove some inflamed tissue behind my knee. Now what gets me is her next statement "I had that over a year ago to repair my ACL. Hey that's great then why are you looking at me like I just walked into the wrong neighborhood? Now I know I could be blowing this way out of proportion and that's not what people meant, but it's what I believed to had experienced. I won't lie I felt a little singled out and I have never felt that way the countless other times I had entered that store. Now I do feel bad for how I treated the girl behind the counter because I could tell she was new because she needed assistance from someone on how to order my shoes. But I was just so fired up at that point I really did not care who it was in front of me. I don't know what do you guys think? I will say I have now walked the mile and understand. That's it. I hope everyone is happy and healthy.

5 comments:

Craig Wheeler said...

After being ignored for so long I would have been thinking about walking out and ordering the shoes at another store.

MikeF. said...

I was just about too when I remebered that they sell those shoes cheaper then the other running store in Rochester.

Amanda said...

That's horrible! You'd think that a running store would be quick to understand injuries. Regardless of whether you were limping or not you should have been helped. I would have been upset too.

It makes it tough to support the running stores when they act like that.

Matt said...

Are you sure you went to Fleet Feet and not Walmart? ;-)

I think you handled it very well. I would have made an ass out of myself. I can see it now! Of course I'm a redhead, so that sort of behavior is expected from me.

Jeff W. said...

My patience is not all that great. Most likely I would have walked out of the store, or if I was upset enough asked for a manager.

On another note...Glad to see you still have the drive and are anxious to get back out there.